Revisiting an earlier time...
Yesterday I shared my time with Benson, who is two. We were outdoors
where he has a big backyard to play in, a couple of Cocker Spaniels to
play with – though he has little time for them as he’s more interested
in duplicating his father’s actions.
Benson grabbed my hand and led me to the ‘big boys’ shop where the ‘big’
riding lawnmowers and motorcycles are stored. We went inside and
quicker than you can blink an eye, he was over, around and through the
maze and all but on a mower. I found myself moving quicker than I have
in a year or two, and while swooping him up in my arms he had the
realization his adventure was brought to a halt.
Let me rewind for a moment, since this baby has been barely old
enough to be propped in front of his father on the riding lawnmower,
Benson has been focused, watching every move. His father taught Benson
how to “drive” and “shift” – Who would have known this little
masterminded-curly-red-head, has a photographic memory?
Imagining a little guy at that age knowing how to climb up and
attempt to turn the key (the only thing that prevented this from
occurring was that he didn’t have the strength). Benson would move the
wheel back and forth; he attempted to move the lever on the handle bar –
he was ready to make that thing go. Thinking to myself, oh my gosh,
changes are in the works. His daddy decided it was time to move the
lawnmower into the shop – with a closed door.
Christmas brought him a John Deer riding lawn mower just like his father’s.
Returning to yesterday … after Benson realized that I was
interrupting his grand scheme and fussing and flinging about in my arms
for a moment, I assured him we’d do something else. We did. He took off,
headed for his John Deere riding lawn mower – I quickly realized that it was
operational. It too had a gas pedal (that works), gears including
reverse (that work) and the steering wheel that moves when he turns it.
He jumped on that thing just like he’s watched his dad a zillion times.
Driving it around, he’d get off pick up sticks and add them to the attached bed … and get right back on and continue.
I was amused to watch him while he was driving on an uphill slant,
occasionally the tires would lose traction preventing him from going
anywhere. He’d jump off of it, saying something about it not getting
enough gas (remember he’s two), fiddle with the gas lid, saying it would
get more gas, jump back onto the seat and put it into gear, foot on the
pedal with determination and belief that mower would move forward – and
it did – with a helping hand unbeknown to him.
I love being Benson's mema.
A great experience, and recapping with my daughter (Benson’s mom) several metaphors appeared…
Such an inspiration, he is. Not once did he hesitate, he believed.
Where might you apply this little guy’s wisdom in your life?
Wishing you a happy day!