Friday, November 18, 2011

The Circle of Insight …


The Circle of Insight …


While I was transporting my grandson to school the other day, he was telling me a story and referred to something as ‘crap.’ I listened to Bryce tell his story and when he was complete I asked him what ‘crap’ meant. He believed it be something negative. He said, “You know Gramma!”

I asked him what all he knew about crap – he looked at me as if I’d lost my mind. (It’s a good thing I was driving slow and there wasn’t hardly any traffic … my attention was somewhat distracted.) He responded – “It’s not anything good.”

 “Crap can be rather icky, stinky and really yucky looking … would you agree?” He said, “Yep.” I said, “And it would be negative?” Another yep.

“Did you know that crap is fertilizer and it nourishes and helps fruits and vegetables grow? Without it, the fruits and vegetables would barely grow. And fertilizer is used for lots of other things. The idea behind fertilizer is to make things grow better, bigger and more. Does this sound negative to you?” By now I had his interest and he said, “No Gramma.”

Another day a while ago … I remember being on a stretch of road that I have driven many times. I have to refrain from breathing through my nose as several miles reek from cattle stockyards. A guy I was dating was working in this area and was looking into purchasing a home in the same vicinity. I asked him how he was going to live with that smell. He said … “I don’t smell anything bad.” I said, “Really?” And he responded, “No I don’t smell crap, I smell money.”

I really like how opportunities appear when we least expect them … presenting a learning experience, if we choose.

What goes around comes around.


Happy day to you,
Glenda 
 

Monday, November 14, 2011

The Miles of Yesterday -- are you in the right lane?


The Miles of Yesterday -- are you in the right lane?

Those grooves in the road come from many a mile well traveled by a fleet of vehicles -- Volkswagens to long-haul trucks with extra trailers attached. Of course the more those well-traveled roads are traveled, the deeper the groove.

There have been roads where the grooves were so deep, it was a real challenge to move to the other lane.

We're taught to memorize things as itty-bitty babes and memorization continues throughout our life. Memorization is an incredible tool. Can you imagine not having this tool? Not me.

I remember driving on a stretch of road where the grooves were really deep. When I attempted to move out of this lane – onto the other lane – it was all but impossible. With my persistence and diligence, (and feeling half unnerved) it occurred.

Being aware that most of the time I had chose hard rather than easy as a way of life, I pondered what could I do to ease my transition from one lane to another ... later, I learned new tires. Now that sounds like a no-brainer, huh?

Grooves (or ruts) in our minds become default.

When we realize a situation feels like we're in a rut ... we have a tendency to refer to that book of memorized responses for our answer. Do you find yourself doing the same thing again and again and wondering why nothing changes?

Ask yourself …
  • Am I using the tools that will move me from where I am to my goal?
  • Is it time for an update?
  • What approach would make this transition a bit smoother?

A new set of tires … a no-brainer, huh!  Being blonde gives me permission …

Smiles to you …
Glenda
 

Tuesday, November 8, 2011

Magnificent Expression


Imagine a tree and how its life began as a seed.  …A Redwood is known for its grandness. It bellows of age and wisdom …within the hands of Father Time and experiences of Mother Earth, this great tree manifested.

Somewhere within the tree there was persistence.

We are offered opportunities to grow larger today than we were yesterday … with life’s happenings offering us the chance – it becomes our choice to add wisdom to our life or let ourselves become stunted. What are you doing today? How is it any different than yesterday?

The Redwood, a magnificent expression, steadfast to its growth…

How do you express your magnificence?

Wishing you success!
Glenda